Give it a search on google and you will find a million and one articles that share their own step by step guide to success on Twitter. You will also find a ton of adverts for auto adders and spam programs >:/ If you are looking for this kind of “get followers quick” scheme then you’ve come to the wrong place. If you’re looking to actually increase your exposure and influence and actually use Twitter the way it’s mean to be used, then you’re in luck because I’m going to give you the REAL secret to increasing your follower count and gaining exposure!
Twitter is meant to build relationships
The minute we start looking at Twitter as a “marketing tool” we lose sight of what the service really is. If you use Twitter purely for marketing your product, then, I can tell you with confidence you will do nothing but piss people off and drive them away.
One very important thing to understand is that you should never close too early. What do I mean by that? Well, whether you are looking to gain more exposure for your product, brand, or even your own name, you are trying to close someone. You are trying to sell them on something. Even if “closing” simply means converting them in to a unique visit to your blog. Here’s an example of closing too early:
“@whoever hah that’s true, say if your in to cars then you should check out my auto blog over at www.whatever.com! I bet you’d love it!”
Most twitter users will go running for the hills at the site of this tweet. Can you guess what the first thing that runs through the user’s mind is? “SPAM!”. That’s right. The same feeling they get when they think they’ve gotten a comment on their blog but it’s actually just some joker faking interest, hoping to farm links to his own site. So, please don’t do this.. you will only hurt yourself.
Want to know more about this? Talk to Gary Vaynerchuk (@garyvee) on Twitter or grab his book the Thank You Economy. Gary started out with 0 followers on Twitter, just like everyone else. The way he amassed his faithful following was by building a relationship with his potential customers instead of just trying to stuff wine specials down their throats.
So, instead of responding immediately with a link to your product or website, try to help the user. Or, at the very least, engage in conversation and learn something about them! If they like what you say then chances are they will checkout your profile and find your website all by themselves!
Engage!
Engaging with others is key. No one wants to follow an empty stream that gets updated once a week. So join the conversation! There are a ton of Twitter clients that can help you stay connected to the conversation. Here a few good programs to check out: HootSuite (my favorite!), TweetDeck, Seesmic.
Find some keywords that interest you and monitor them. If someone says something that you are interested in then engage with them! Get in the discussion and make friends! For those of you who care about the numbers, this alone will increase your follow count drastically.
HootSuite is my weapon of choice and is a great way to keep tabs on my different Twitter feeds:

Follow the people who interest you the most and engage!
Head over to wefollow and find the greatest influencers who align with your interests and follow them. Many of them will openly interact with other Twitter users so get in the conversation and talk to them! Every time they mention your name in an @ reply you are gaining exposure and, not to mention, making friends!
Lists are a great way to keep all of your follows organized. Most of the Twitter clients can turn these lists in to a separate stream so you can easily monitor them.
Follow Friday
Follow Friday is a fun way to recommend people for other Twitter users to follow! It’s a great way to establish connections and to make your followers very happy!
The problem, though, is that most users don’t understand the proper way to use Follow Friday. Here is an example of what not to do: “#FF @ericbieller @mattboyd @davidcc @driklyn @garyvee Thanks guys!”. This doesn’t give anyone a reason to follow these users. It really has become equivocal to spam and is currently running wild on Twitter.
So what’s the proper way to execute a Follow Friday? Simple. The point is to give your followers a reason to follow a specific person. So just do that!: “#FF @davidcc because he is a great artist and has some really strong opinions!”.
Conclusion
For those of you looking for the secret technique to gaining thousands of followers over night, keep searching. Besides, followers gained through those techniques are low quality followers who are only looking for followers themselves! Not to mention most of them are spam bots!
The key here is simple: engage. If you create value to for other people then they will follow you. The simplest way is to just put out meaningful content. If you remember to do that and you stay engaged and become part of the conversation then you will see you numbers and exposure rise very quickly!
I’ll leave you with some proof. I employed the techniques mentioned above for the last few months and here is my follower graph:

The bottom line is, it works. So what are you waiting for? Get in to the conversation! And if you have anything at all to add please let me know in the comments below. Is there anything I’m missing? Do you have a secret of your own? Let me know!